Dream of died, father, grandmother, person

I dream that me my fathers side of the family were together somewhere with my grandmother who is already dead because she is having surgery, I went to go tell my grandmother that I loved her and to give her a envelope of money she said to me that she didn't think that I cared because when she saw my face it look as if I didn't want to be there she told me that I was a extraordinary person and that is was sad that I would never know how special I was, then at the same time my husband died in the navy, which is his current job I leave the place we were at in my cousin friend car who I had a fight with in the same dream went and got a BMW then my husband comes back but I am the only person who can see and talk with him he asked about my grandmother and I told him she died and that I knew she was going to die he asked if I gave her the envelope and I said no because I knew she was going to die then my father came into the room where I was talking to my husband with a bra on.